Thursday 15 June 2017

Facebook – An Update On My Return, Focus, Collaborative Efforts And Successes

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I haven’t updated this blog for a while because I have been busy with a few personal and collaborative projects with friends I made online via social media, particularly Facebook, Aboutme.com and G+. And, if you’re wondering, no we haven’t met in real life before. Yes, you heard me right! These are friendships I have cultivated around the world in several countries. I know you’re wondering whether this is possible in this very distrustful day and age. So, how did this happen?

I would tell you but first of all let me give a little background to all of this. A little while back, I wrote this piece 5 Things I Achieved After Deactivating Facebook For Two Months. I almost sounded like a Facebook bashing b…….h (pardon my language) and then, i explained some of the benefits. One thing I wasn’t sure of however was what I was going to use my platform for since almost everyone in my friend’s list is a family member. A break-down of my friend’s list looks like this. About 85% of everyone on my list is family (sister, brothers, cousins, nieces, nephews, aunties and one time neighbours). The other 15% are friends (old mates from primary school to university, former co-workers and friends I have made around the world online but haven’t met in real life).  The latter group of friends of course, will be the focus of this article.


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How am I managing on my return?

1.      First off, I decided to do a few things. My Facebook chat is completely and permanently turned off unless there is an urgent situation that demands live interaction. Infact this was long before I even took my Facebook break and it has remained same.

2.      I change my profile photos periodically to prove I am not a fake to those who don’t know me in real life, not for some ‘vanity fair’!!

3.      As a follow up to point 2, I don’t therefore check the likes I get on my profile photos. Infact, I don’t even click on the photo once uploaded except when I need to customize the visibility, reply to comments made on it for the sake of courtesy or change to a new one. To make it easy, I don’t keep my photos on my timeline. Therefore beyond the last two names that Facebook displays, I never know who liked or un-liked my personal photos anymore. I know there’s a hint of snobbishness in there but no, that’s not the case. I am a very reciprocal person to a fault. I always feel obliged to return the ‘like’ favour on the spot or later. This can be time consuming because I know I will always find something I like on a friend’s timeline. Don’t get me wrong, I appreciate all the likes and comments but I may not reciprocate immediately because my focus is elsewhere. This point is also really important because deny as we may, it’s a fact that, most, if not all of us tend to be obsessed with how we look in photos. If you’re not careful, this can become an internalized gloom when you don’t get the expected likes or likes from particular people. Mine is to avoid all that and stay focused.  For photos, I prefer Instagram because that’s what it’s made for. Besides, on Instagram, the visibility of those who liked your photos is locked after a certain number, which renders it impossible to see the names unless you check from the notification; even that is limited. I therefore get to like photos not necessarily out of reciprocity but because I really liked them. Time saved.

4.      Do I ever like any photos of my Facebook friends at all? Of course I do! I will be a hypocite to say I don’t. Here’s what I have decided to do from now on! Maybe once or twice in a year I will go through my entire list and find something to like on every friend’s page as a tribute of friendship. I think I would spread this over a 2 or 3 weeks period in barges especially on weekends. This approach I believe would save me time whilst acknowledging the importance of friendships.

5.      Finally, what interest me most are the likes I get on the content I post because they help me gauge people’s interest through which I can generate an entrepreneurial idea.


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The last point brings me to the group of focus (friends that I have never met in real life) and this has been one of the most beneficial parts of Facebook and Social media overall. On my return to Facebook, I decided to leverage these cultivated friendships into a collaborative economic effort since I am into entrepreneurship and have a vague idea of what everyone does. However, I had to ask myself, “Who’s going to trust someone, they have never met in real life, especially someone from my location?” I know it’s difficult for people to trust someone they only met online and have never met in real life but I have been very lucky. At this point, I have three collaborative efforts ongoing and others coming up with friends all over the world. Take this list of examples.

Name: +Miss Sunshine  (Meditation Coach) –Website: labelleetsabete.com

Collaboration Type: E-commerce – Website: doctororganic.net (An online Store for organic products opening soon)

Name: +Korana Stojčić  (A successful graphic designer) – Website: koranaart.com

Collaboration Type: E-commerce (Digital Products Based) – Website: e-generaltrader.com (Soon to be launched)

Name: +Kyrian Lyndon  (A successful writer in her own right and author of  ShatteringTruths ) – Website: kyrianlyndon.com

Collaboration Type: Community (under construction)

Name: +Mustapha Speaks  (A successful social entrepreneur)

Collaboration Type: To be discussed (by the way my brother, still looking forward to that collabo), lol.

These are but a few of several collaborative efforts under discussion all with friends I have never met in real life. Who says it’s not possible? It takes mutual trust and honesty. So, how do you build trust with friends you have never met?

 


Honesty Is The Best Policy

The saying “honesty is the best policy” may seem over-flogged but it cannot be over-emphasized. Be open and honest about everything. Also, know that no one is perfect and everything under this sun is discussable for solutions. The point here is that you need to be plain and honest about any and everything. Also be genuinely interested in the people around you, don’t fake it. If there’s something you’re not interested in, don’t touch it, just because it has to be touched to impress. That’s manipulative and dishonest and people would always smell it from a distance. Am I suggesting that everyone’s going to trust you?? Hell, no!! Look, there are several reasons why people will not trust or want anything to do with someone they have never met in real life. It’s just sane and sage! Maybe you did something wrong, oblivious of the fact that you’re breeding mistrust. Maybe the person got burnt by scam in relationships or business deals by a person they met online and that makes it high risk to them. All this is understandable, though there’s no guarantee that, you can fully trust everyone you know in real life. I always say that, you can be dorm mates or best friends in a Monastery and a friend will still cheat on you. The problem is not the medium, it is the people involved (human nature). Also, it’s very important not to jump to conclusions on some of the actions your friends take on social media if you haven’t discussed it with the person. It can breed mistrust. If you have doubts about something make the effort to talk to the person before drawing conclusions.

 

Help Without Strings

Finally offer help without strings attached. Always have good intentions for everyone. I have been doing this all my life. Trust me, God, or if you wish, Karma would pay you back big time. Never-mind the time it takes or from where it comes, it will come at some point in your life. When I help people, I help with all my heart without expecting anything back. You can’t help in every situation because you’re human but help those you can and when you do, expect nothing back; it’s that simple, huh? And oh most importantly, make it  a point to form real friendships not just collaborative or business friendships alone. Get to know people beyond themselves. Get to know their friends and family also. That's the best way to form real relationships of any kind because it builds trust over time.

 


As much as this article is about me, it’s actually intended to share ideas to help those who are addicted to Facebook and do not know how to use it ‘profitably’ following from my previous article. I shall be updating you on my progress in the collaborative projects with my friends and be sharing ideas of how you can make positive progress. No, those would not be motivational speeches. They would be actual step by step guides on what to do from ground zero. You don’t need to be rich or poor, green, black, yellow, white, blue, male, female, Non-gender, religious, non-religious etc, etc to collaborate with people when they trust you. I am always open to collaboration with no strings attached. It doesn’t matter if you don’t want to collaborate, whatever ideas you have, even if vague, I can help you polish it by leveraging technology and social media for success. All this without strings attached but note that you can build success on your own from what you have around you. There are many people building full-time successful business using Social media alone. Don’t be left out. Feel free to share this if you found it useful.

Monday 11 April 2016

How The Panama Papers Emphasises An Ignored African Tragedy



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The leakage of the ‘Panama papers’ last week got my heart racing fast and almost popping out of my chest. The revelation that the names of some African technocrats, politicians and their children appeared in the papers is absolutely no shocker, though i am not suggesting any wrong-doing. Infact, the opposite would have been shocking. What this leakage, however brought back to me, are some sad memories from my past as a tax assistant intern with a public institution in my country. It justified the reason why I decided not to continue in that employment though I was considered the best worker then. Many were those who thought I was a fool.  Well, I was not going to be given full employment anyway because I had no political, regional or ethnic connections to grab the very limited vacancies available; an effect of the World Bank’s freeze on employment in the public sector which was a condition precedent to our government signing a loan agreement. Sorry for the digression, back to the subject!!

The Panama Papers have revealed that Africa had lost at least $3 trillion in tax evasion and avoidance apparently aided by ‘smart accounting’ and some corrupt officials. Clearly the culprits are not only foreign and domestic multi-nationals but also aide camp  technocrats and ‘political entrepreneurs’ as I call them. You may say that tax avoidance, is perfectly legal but it’s very possible to use ‘smart accounting’ to avoid tax. That’s a whole topic for another day!! Before I continue, here’s a short story.


The Story

I have often told this story. It is a story that made me realize that I would never work in taxation again, at least in this part of the world. You can call me a fool and by the way, I am by no means an angel but I would die a happy man if I have to spend the rest of my life in poverty than be employed in a well paid job as a tax inspector ever again in this part of the world. It was a fine afternoon in the office. My colleagues were on operations doing inspection whilst I was alone in the office doing some data entry. I had just finished lunch and was about to retire behind my work station when I heard a loud bang on the door. I beckoned the person in. This sullen looking 60ish woman, almost in tears wobbled in through the door and approached me in a very meek manner which really felt embarrassing. She was probably the age of my mother. I gave her a seat and she had a story to tell, a story too common in this part of the world. She runs a small sachet water business on which she survived hand to mouth. From this same revenue, she paid the school fees her grandchild who is an orphan and also paid the rent and the bills. Now what was her problem? She has just been given 24hrs to settle all her tax bills by a tax team on operations or she would have her business shut down. She had close to 2 years tax arrears. Broken down by the amount she paid quarterly, that would be $20 in current terms. Her tear drenched handkerchief, as she narrated her plight, couldn’t hold any more of it. So what’s a man to do, right? Well, I did it and damned the consequences! Yes you guessed right, I played ‘Robin Hood’! I changed data to prove that she started her business less than a year ago and that she was entitled to just 2 quarters of tax payment in the current year because that was what she could afford; I warned you I am not an angel, didn’t i? Was I wrong? Yes I was but I was ready to take responsibility and live with the consequences of that action. I could have paid for her but paying would have meant, I am in support of a system which I have come to despise. There and then, I knew that this job was not meant for me. Now, how does this relate to the Panama Papers?


Africa’s Tragedy

It used to be common rumour that both foreign and domestic multi-nationals are engaged in ‘smart accounting’ to avoid and evade paying appropriate taxes. However, several reports on Africa prove that there is a major tax and royalty leakage and capital flight out of Africa. Tax auditing reveals many loopholes that help these multi-nationals to ferry huge sums of money out to unknown destinations; then Switzerland, now Panama as revealed and most likely other obscure islands soon to be revealed. They are very often than not, aided by corrupt technocrats and politicians who get huge kick-backs in different forms. Some may be in cash and some may even be in kind by paying the school fees of the children of corrupt officials in top universities in various parts of the world.  Yet small start-ups, table-top hand to mouth businesses and little corner shops are constantly harassed by tax inspectors to pay their taxes as in the case of my story. Don’t get me wrong, no country develops without some form of financial contribution in the form of taxation and having an offshore account is not illegal either. Every business small or big, aligned within a given tax thresh-hold must pay taxes. However, where is the equity and equality when firms with the financial muscle can buy their way out whilst poor ordinary people are over-taxed?


Let’s Do A Little Common Sense Economics

Now my dear good people, you can imagine what $3 trillion can do for this continent, so let your imagination run wild? There is no exact figure but there are claims that, Africa’s current debt hovers around $600 billion; I stand to be corrected, though. If the reports are accurate, then this simply suggests that Africa shouldn’t be borrowing at all. Instead, a perpetual cycle of dependency has been created where Africa would never be able to sufficiently service its debt, hence would always negotiate from a weak position. It also means Africa would continuously be under the grip of donor agencies and development partners as long as it loses such huge amounts through tax leakages. Is this a deliberate manipulation mechanism to keep developing countries under control? I have no evidence to that effect! Is there a guarantee that, if this amount ends up with African governments, it would not be drained down a corruption hole? No, but that does not mean that Africa does not deserve its due.


High Unemployment = Illegal Migration – The Inevitable Effect

Africa has been touted by expects as rising; very true, too. Ironically, Africa is still very often analysed as a high politically risky destination for investment. It seems this is an excuse to justify inappropriate financial machinations. Therefore Africa attracts mainly multi-nationals in the extractive industry who basically take advantage of the weak systems and corruption to sign atrocious contracts that virtually give away African resources for free. However, what the so-called expects have ignored is that by ‘stealing taxes’ from Africa, Africa have been left with a cycle of perpetual high unemployment which ends up haunting the west in the form of illegal migration. If only foreign and domestic multi-nationals would stop ‘stealing taxes’, if only they would pay the appropriate royalties, if only the growing industry of ‘political entrepreneurship’ capital flight and general corruption can be curtailed, only then, would massive employment be created and the human trafficking industry, which encourages able bodied youth to cross dangerous waters in search of ‘greener pastures', be disabled.

Opinion mine! I would be glad to hear yours!